When you’re a twin, the bond you share is exceptionally deep and unique. In Minnesota, 27-year-old Brenna Grund discovered this firsthand with her newborn twins, Lane and Lennox, who exhibit an astonishing level of distress when separated. Despite facing criticism on TikTok for allowing the twins to sleep side by side, Brenna demonstrated that their comfort in each other’s presence is undeniable and leads to immediate calm.
As a mother of four, Brenna firmly opposes the idea of letting her children “cry it out” alone. Her approach to place the twins together has proven effective, as they settle down and fall asleep rapidly when next to one another. Witnessing the profound connection between Lane and Lennox, Brenna feels a deep appreciation for their twin bond, which she believes is beyond comprehension for those who haven’t experienced it themselves.
The twins have faced their share of challenges, including a NICU stay and various illnesses, but have only spent one night apart, revealing the extent of their reliance on each other for comfort. Their shared sleeping arrangement, while contrary to the American Pediatric Association’s recommendations against co-sleeping due to SIDS risks, seems to offer them the best rest, as they become agitated and upset when apart.
Public response to Brenna’s video showcases a range of perspectives, with many supporting her decision to prioritize the twins’ happiness and comfort by letting them sleep together. While practices vary, and some twins may disrupt each other’s sleep, the overarching sentiment is that parents should do what works best for their children’s well-being and rest.